Store Review: 13 Moons

I've reviewed a goth store a long while ago, so now, it's the pagan's turn.  I've recently bought a product from 13 Moons.  I bought a very small, brass mortar and pestles set (it's literally 2" high x 1 3/4" wide).  So far, I'm happy with this product.  The reason why I bought such a small set to begin with, is because 1) It's made of brass, so it'll be harder for it to break (I've been known to be clumsy), and it's easier for me to control how I'm crushing the herbs.  That's just me though, they have a lot of different types of Mortar and pestles set to choose from, as well as many other different products.

I haven't purchased anything else besides my set, but so far, I have no complaints.  They have different categories for everything that they sell.  The prices are fair enough.  If you're on a budget, I suggest you go to a second hand shop, or substitute the tool that you're looking for.  Sometimes the site will have sales, so you may find something then.  For cauldrons and mortar sets, the cheaper, usually that means the smaller as well. If you're ok with that, cool, but if you're not, you may need to pay a little more for the size you want (keep your eye out for sales too though).  The shipping really isn't half bad.  Most of the time, it'll be around six dollars, depending where you live.  When you get the package, you'll also get a surprise gift!  I got a stripped jasper stone.  

Overall, I have no complaints about this store.  I'm looking forward to buying more tools/ingredients soon.

Eclectic Neo-Paganism

There are a lot of terminology with paganism.  If you're new to it, or if you've been reading about the subject for a while, sometimes new terms come up, and you learn a little something new every time you read.  I have been into paganism for over five years, and I have never heard the term Eclectic Neo-Paganism until a few months ago.  Now, I'm sure I'm going to receive a few eye rollings for my previous sentence from people who are more knowledgeable about paganism than I.  I will say this much, I'm only human, which means that I don't claim to know everything.  I didn't know about Eclectic Neo-Paganism, or that this is a specific group within the pagan world.  Forgive me for saying, but terms like this aren't exactly common, and misunderstandings are bound to happen. Certainly, there are a lot more information on the subject now, rather than when I started my pagan path.

So, what is Eclectic Neo-Paganism then?  Let's start by looking at the word Eclectic.  Eclectic means deriving ideas, style, or taste from a broad and diverse range of sources.  Neo-Paganism on the other hand, means modern paganism   Instead of following traditional pagan religions, the religions have been modified to mesh with the modern era.  Most Neo-pagans share a combination of the same beliefs.  Basically, Neo-Paganism takes old concepts of pagan religions of old, and turn them into a more contemporary religion, related to a pagan movement in the 19th century, which helped influence modern pagan religions, like wicca.

Now, if we put Eclectic and Neo-Paganism together, we get a category for people who are involved with paganism, but don't follow a certain pagan religion.  Because in most pagan religions (like wicca) one has to be initiated (among other prerequisites), which means that most people fall into the Eclectic Neo-Paganism group.  It's not a bad thing to be incorporated into this group, nor does it mean that you are any less pagan than anyone else.  Actually, an advantage to being in this group, means that you can branch out and learn anything you want to.  You can take bits and pieces from wicca and other pagan religions of interest, and write your own pagan path that fits your needs.  You don't have to be initiated, you can believe anything you want to, and you don't have to be oathbound about what your practices are.

I myself, happen to be Neowiccan.  Neowiccan (AKA Eclectic Wicca) simply means that I take most of my teachings from wicca (non traditional, but from books like ones from Scott Cunningham) .  Because I don't have any wiccan lineage, am not initiated into a coven, or the like, I can't be considered wiccan.  However, since I convert wiccan teachings to my beliefs and write my own pagan path, I can be considered a Neowiccan.  Now, this doesn't mean that I can't take other interesting information from other pagan religions.  I can very well do that, but as I stated before, I prefer to learn wiccan based beliefs, because my core beliefs match the closest to the wiccan way (as far as the outer teachings go).

Like any religion, it's all about what you are most comfortable with.  You might never become part of wicca, or any other specific pagan religion, but that's ok.  You can always write your own pagan path to what best suites you, and you not being a pagan religion, or whatever shouldn't stop you from being interested in paganism.  Don't let anything like religious status, or disappointment in never being able to be part of a religious group get you down.  If you do have an interest in paganism, then I would do the research before hand, and really think about your core beliefs.  If you still feel that you want to be a pagan, then write your own path and learn about everything, and anything you can.        


Sources:

Neo Wicca
Eclectic Wicca (Neo Wicca)
Neo-Pagan Witchcraft and Solitary Wicca    

Book Review: The Wiccan Year

I had this book for quite a while (and refer to it quite frequently when an upcoming wiccan holiday is about to roll around.  I like how the author goes deeper than saying what each of the holidays mean.  She goes in and explains each of the myth behind the holiday, what ancient wiccans use to do to celebrate, different recipes you could make, and more.  I have a lot of beginner books that feature the Sabbits (wiccan holidays) and they're good for a small explanation of what they're about, but the books themselves don't go into much detail.  

As I said before, I use this book as a reference guide to upcoming sabbits, so I can get prepared ahead of time.  I like having a solid guide, because it has everything that I need to know.  One thing I wish it had more of, were the arts and crafts for each sabbit.  For each one, they only give one example of a craft you can do for that holiday.  I wish they had more activities, because it's a good way to channel your wiccan energy, and to celebrate.  If you do buy this book, it's good for information, but if you're looking for crafts to do during a certain holiday, your best bet is to look on the internet.

I think this book is a deserving 8/10.  For more information, here's a link to The Wiccan Year, By: Judy Ann Nock.

Pagansim: Getting Started

Yup, it's me again, with yet another wiccan post.  This time, I decided to write something about getting started into wicca.  There is a lot of information about wicca, and sometimes it can be a little overwhelming.  When I first started, I had no direction, nor anyone to tell me how to go about learning it.  I remember gathering any information that I can, without knowing good from bad advice.  I had to literally go through everything that I had, and cast out the bad information.  I'm hoping by writing up this topic that people will find this helpful, and won't fall into the same pitfalls that I did when I was starting out.

1. Dealings with research  

Research is an important part of wicca.  As stated before, there is a lot of information regarding to the subject.  It's important to learn as much as you can, when you can.  There is always something new you can learn that can help improve your craft in some way.  No matter if it's learning new ways to craft spells, new found information about moon phases, or even if it's a small tidbit of advice from another wiccan.  It's important to be open to research.  That's how we develop so much knowledge in the first place.

 Ideally, before someone becomes a wiccan, one should study for at least a year and a day.  I didn't do this, but I researched like a dickens before I first practiced spells.  You can study for a year and a day if you want to, it's not required.  What I do recommend is to study tons before you begin spell work (and I mean study!  Study everything!).

Books:

One of my favorite methods of research.  I recommend for people just starting out, to read books from people like Scott Cunningham (here is my review/list of his books: Author Review: Sctott Cunningham).  After you've been somewhat familiar to the craft, then I would branch out and read books from other authors.  I know there are a lot of controversy with some authors, like Silver Revenwolf.  In one of her books specifically that I've noted, she didn't do a very good job (I recommend staying away from Teen Witch.  If you have to buy/read one of her books, make it the solitary practitioner one.  That is probably the only book of her's worth reading/gaining information from).  In some of her books, she bashes Christians, and gives some pretty bad advice to teenagers (regardless of the negative feedback, the solitary practitioner book is the best to read.  She doesn't bash Christians or give bad advice in that one.  She actually just teaches the info, and the spells in that book aren't total bullocks).  In any case, like I said before, wiccans (especially those just starting out) need to do as much research as they most possibly can.  I hope that if you do the research, you branch out a little, when it comes to books.  How do you know if their book doesn't work for you, if you don't give it a read?      

What if you can't buy the books?  No problem, go to your school's and public library, and check out books to help you on your path.  Unfortunately not a lot of library's have an occult section, so you may need to nose around for a while before you find books that will help you.  Some library's don't have books that will help you at all.  When this happens, you can always borrow a friend's books, or turn to the internet for answers.

Internet:

Oh yes, the internet, the easiest source of information.  As much as I love the interwebz, I wouldn't heavily rely on it too much.  There are some good information out there, but you have to sort out through all the bad stuff first.  As I said when I first started, I had to use the internet and I had to do a lot of sorting of good and bad info.  If you do use the internet, I would look up as many sources as possible, to make sure that the information that you're getting isn't bad advice.  I also recommend that you stay away from sites like this one: http://www.spellsofmagic.com/spells.html.  I'm not trying to bash this site.  There are some good ideas for spells, but you have to sort out through a lot of false information, and most of the spells are just utter BS.  On sites like that one, if it looks too good to be true, most likely it's fake, and you would have wasted your time performing the said spell for nothing.  So check your sources.  If you have wiccan friends, you can always ask them for interesting sites to search.


2. Supplies

When you get more into wicca, you'll come to find out that there are a lot of supplies that goes along with the craft.  In my other post about beginning witchcraft, I go through some of the tools (only briefly).  So, you're getting in to wicca, and you're researching supplies.  The sad fact is that some supplies and tools alike are expensive.  Cauldrons alone could run form $10 - $50+.  If you're starting out and are strapped for cash, then obviously you can't afford some of the needed supplies on your list.  However, there is nothing that doesn't say that you can substitute a tool until you can buy it.  I do it all the time.  If there is a wiccan tool, ike a chalice that I would like to have for my work, but can't afford it at the moment, I do the next best thing.  I substitute it with a glass that isn't used for anything, except wiccan work.  You're wiccan tools don't have to be fancy by any means (though it would be nice to have some nifty looking tools), as long as they function the way they're needed.

So, my advice for everyone is that if you can afford grade A supplies, you can get them, but you don't have to.  If the supplies can be substituted with something else, until you can buy what you need, then do it.  Also, another piece of advice: if you don't use a certain tool, or ingredient little to none, then save yourself some money and don't bother buying it.  It's common sense, if you don't use it, don't bother buying it.  This will save you a lot of money.

3. Keeping a journal 

Along with learning about wicca, one should also keep a record of their thoughts and feelings about the craft.  The reason for this is: 1) we can learn from our past spells, seeing what worked and what didn't.  2) It's good to keep your thoughts and feelings together, re-read them, and maybe add something about it later on, or read them for enjoyment.  There are a lot of reasons for keeping one handy.  A lot of wiccans suggest this, as a learning tool, and to become better wiccans.  

Author Review: Scott Cunnhingham

I've been pretty busy lately with life and all that jazz.  I know, it's been a while since I've posted something.  I've seriously had been racking my brain, thinking of more wicca topics that I should write about.  Then, it hit me.  Books.  Every wiccan should have at least one book int heir library.  But, if you're a beginner wiccan, then where do you start?
 

I strongly suggest you start with the one and only, Scott Cunningham.  I have bought three of his books so far, and he's just a compelling writer.  To me, he makes the most sense with his writing, wording each paragraph so people of all reading levels can understand, as well explain the information in his books thoroughly.  He touches every topic that a beginner needs to know, as well as lists references like where to buy your supplies, other publications, etc.  

 

Below, is a list of Scott Cunningham books that I've bought, and use frequently with my wiccan work:

 

Wicca: A guide for the Solitary Practitioner    

A great beginners guide for someone who wants to practice Wicca by themselves, instead of with a coven.  Again, he explains every topic that a beginner needs to know, in depth.  It has everything to the theory of wicca, all the way to examples of spells and rituals.  It also features a little tidbit about Scott Cunningham's own book of shadows, giving the reader examples of what they can do for their own BOS (book of shadows).

Living Wicca 

 

Part two of the book above.  It's just a more in depth about the topics stated in the first book.  I suggest reading the first book, before this one.  This book is for intermediate users, or those who have been into wicca for a while.

 

Wicca in the Kitchen 

 

How many of you had heard of Kitchen witchcraft?  Basically, kitchen witchcraft is when you use cooking, in place of performing a spell, or ritual.  What I like about this book, is that I do a lot of baking, and all the ingredients, as well as how to use them while cooking, are explained in this book.  It even has a small section for vegetarians, as well as a section for what you should incorporate with your cooking on certain holidays.  If you have any interest with including witchcraft with your cooking, this book is for you.

 

Other books you may like (all by Scott Cunningham)

 

Encyclopedia of Magical Herbs

 Magical Herbalism: The Secret Craft of the Wise

The Complete book of Incense, Oils, and Brews

 Earth Power: Techniques of Natural Magic

The Magical Houshold

Encyclopedia of Crystal, Gem, and Metal Magic

The Truth About Witchcraft Today

 Magical Aromatherapy: The Power of Scent

 Earth, Air, Fire, and Water: More Techniques of Natural Magic

The Magic in Food

Divination for Beginners

Spell Crafts: Creating Magical Objects

The Truth About Herb Magic

The Truth About Witchcraft

Hawaiian Magic and Spirituality

Pocket Guide for Fortunetelling 

Dreaming the Divine: Techniques for Sacred Sleep

Cunningham's Book of Shadows: The Path of An American Traditionalist 

 

 

Finding that good 'ol inspiration.

I've been at a rut as of late with my style.  I hardly dress the nines anymore, and I feel like everything has been rather dull.  Looks like it's time to search for inspiration!  So, if you're like me, who needs to search for some of that inspiration to get you out of that rut, I have a few tips for you.

1. Try finding inspiration in books

Books are amazing on their own.  The right words allow your mind to pain a canvas as to what the author is describing.  There are tons of young adult books that have goth characters.  One of them is Vampire Kisses, and I have to say that sometimes I get inspiration from the main character (or from some of the other gothy types in the books).  She has clothes in her closet that give me ideas of what I can bring to my own personal style.  You don't have to limit yourself to goth books either.  If you like fantasy, sci-fi, or even western, try to get inspiration from them.  

2. Look at pictures

Look at pictures that interest you.  I wouldn't limit myself to just goth pictures either, but every picture that you find interesting.  It can even be pictures of nature, animals, or even some mainstream styles.  Keep your mind open and get looking.

3. Listen to music

Music on it's own is a powerful source of inspiration and motivation.  Make a play list of bands and songs that you like, and listen to the music closely.  Sometimes when I do this, I get images, or short stories in my head that inspire me.

4. Write down your dreams

It's nothing new that people keep dream journals.  There are a lot of benefits to keeping dream journals, and looking for inspiration is no exception.  If you start keeping a dream journal, you can go back to read them, and get some inspiration from them.

5. Everyday life

Inspiration happens when you least expect it, and one can find just as much inspiration during everyday life.  Maybe you see someone wearing a neat piece of jewelry, or a shirt that you know would look great with a pair of pants you own.  Pay attention to the daily events in your life and get inspired.

October is here! (A guide on shopping for the spookiest day of the year)

The leaves are turning color, the wind is starting to become colder, and the sunny days of yore are now replaced with cloudy days.  It's October of course, the biggest shopping time of the year for goths.  I'm sure you've noticed it by  now, shopping centers being overtaken by the creepy holiday, selling spooky trinkets to celebrate the coming of Halloween.  If you're like me, then a week (or more) before October first, you were antsy at the passing days, impatiently waiting for the best time of the year (and I don't mean Christmas).  The wait is over, and the time is now!  

But wait, what if you're new to the goth scene, and you don't know where to start?  Below, I have a few tips and tricks to help.  

1. Stay away from cheap products

    This includes anything that looks like it'll fall apart if handled too much (like cheap metals, etc...).  This can be frustrating, especially if you buy the said object for a hefty price, just to have it fall apart on you.  Some mass produced products (not just Halloween, but most products as a whole), are made of cheap materials, and sometimes will break easily.  Anything that looks like it will break if handled too much, stay away from, even if you have to spend a few dollars more to get the better made product.  It'll save you in the long run.  

2. Don't limit yourself to just Halloween stores

I can't tell you how many times I went to Kmart, or the dollar store, and found an accessory that I just had to have.  If you only shop at Halloween stores, then you are limiting yourself to the other possibilities of finding products that can either enhance your look, or give you new ideas.  I know what some of you are thinking.  "Kmart and most dollar stores only sell massed produce items, so why are you telling us to shop there, when you  just told us to stay away from products like that?"  Because, not all products that Kmart, and stores alike sell, are cheap.  There are a lot of cheesy looking costume pieces yes, but sometimes you can find a gem of an accessory to go with your outfit, or something that you can use.  You have to be willing to hunt, if you want to find them though.  

Also, not all Halloween stores sell five star products.  Some of it is mass produced anyway, which means no matter which store you go to, you'll have to hunt to find what you want, and not limiting yourself to just one store, you can find a better range of Halloween goodies.

3. Be Inspired

With any goth outfit, one must be inspired to make it work.  Always look for inspiration, especially around Halloween time.  If you're inspired around this time of year, the sky is the limit, and the accessories that you need, or are inspired to use, will be easier to obtain, and can really make your outfit pop.  With goth fashion, one should be inspired anyway (though I know it's hard sometimes.  I'm just starting to get inspired again myself), but even if you are in a bit of a fashion rut, going shopping for Halloween can be a fun way to become inspired.  

4. Fall is also a good time to shop for clothing

Besides shopping for the latest spooky Halloween accessories, fall is a great time to buy the essentials that any goth should have in their closet.  In the fashion world, goth will at times become popular among society, and fashion will draw inspiration from the dark subculture.  Sometimes it can be aggravating  seeing the subculture of darklings in the spotlight, and every trendy person striving to wear what goths have been wearing for decades, with no knowledge of the subculture.  However, this is the time of year that we have the clothing advantage.  It's a lot easier now to find clothes more suited for one's dark image, rather than having to buy off the internet, or go to specialty shops.  We can now go to a mainstream store, and find goodies that can even make Elvira squeal.

Another note:  When looking for clothing, try to find clothes and don't look like a costume.  It's important that you do this, because one of the things that set goths apart from goth  look a likes, is how well put together someone's outfit is, as shallow as that seems.  Now, that doesn't mean that you can't buy Halloween items anymore.  That is't what I'm saying.  What I am saying though, is that if you wear something that looks like a costume (or is a costume) as a goth outfit (especially when it's nowhere near Halloween), you won't be taken seriously, which may result in hurt feelings.  The less your outfit looks like a costume, the better you'll be put together.  So, what I am saying is that if you are looking to do some shopping for your gothy closet, stick to clothing that look like...clothing, and stay away from pieces that look like costumes.

5. Have fun

Above all else this October, have as much fun as you can.  Halloween is a celebration of not only dressing up and getting candy, but also the wiccan new year.  I urge you on your adventures of shopping, don't forget to laugh and have fun with the holiday.  Have a happy and safe Halloween everyone!